与一个咄咄逼人的朋友或者爱人划清界限，对你来说非常重要。 之前，你已经让这个人如此放肆以及破坏，可是随後的後果总是给你带来的压力和焦虑。 但是，如果你立即说明你的界线，而且你坚定地扞卫你所划定的那条线，对方就会明白这 一点。 虽然他们仍然可能试图违反你的要求，但坚持下去将充分加强和维持你的舒适区。 Drawing a line with a pushy friend or loved one will be very important for you . In the past, you have let this person get away with murder, so to speak, and the subsequent fallout always involves stress and anxiety for you. But if you state your limits immediately, and you are stalwart in your determination to defend that line you've drawn, the other party will get the message. Although they may still try to breach your requirements, sticking with it will adequate ly enforce and maintain your comfort zone. ------------------------------------------- 渣渣翻译，翻错请见谅。 --

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