Cancer horoscope for 星期日 7月 4 Someone may be asking you to give more than you can comfortably give. But beca use you have such a generous spirit, Moonchild, you will probably try to do so anyway. But wait a minute! Before you give the shirt off your back without a shirt to spare, you need to be honest with yourself - and with whomever it is that needs your assistance. Don't be hesitant to express that you are always h appy to help, but you must set limits on what you can do within reason. They w ill surely be grateful to accept whatever you can give if you are honest about it. And if they are not, you should question this person's real motives. 月之子，有人会要求你付出你没办法负荷的要求。但因为你本性慷慨，你会去用尽全力、 完美地完成这个要求。 但请等一下！在你不遗余力付出之前，请你先诚实告知-不论这个对象是你要帮助的人。 『你会热心且毫不犹豫的提供帮助，但你必须在合理的范围内限制你能帮忙的事情。』 如果你诚实告知需要帮助的人，他们肯定还是会感激地接受你能给予的一切。 但如果他们不是这样，那你该质疑他们「真正的动机」。 ------------------------------------------ 渣渣翻译，这次翻起来虽然有点难懂，但怎麽感觉跟我之前的状况有点像。 猜测是不是要帮忙可以，但是要设定合理范围及限制，然後观察是真心需要帮忙还是... 另有目地？ 之前好几次对同一个人好心帮忙，却反被阴+抹黑超级多次，最後扛下所有过错。 对方不会感激，还会八卦+看笑话。 有时候就当学一个教训，看清一个人让自己成长。 希望各位蟹蟹们是过美好的一天！ 也祝7/4生日的蟹蟹们生日快乐！ --

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