When facing a tough decision, it is always easier to put it in someone else's hands by asking for advice or allowing someone else to tell you what to do. And while that may offer faster gratification and the ability to move past the problem more quickly, dear Cancer, it isn't necessarily the best way to go. If you are struggling with a decision, it is probably because it is an important one. In that case, do you really want someone else to decide your fate? Of course not! Get busy thinking about this by devoting some time to nothing but this question. You will figure it out. 当面临了艰难的抉择的时候，把它推到别人身上，问问别人的意见，或是让其他人告 诉你要做什麽总是比较容易。虽这也许提供了更快的满足感，还有更快解决问题的能 力，亲爱的巨蟹，这不一定是最好的方式。如果你正在挣扎着不知道该怎麽做决定， 这或许是因为这是一个重要的决定。在这种情况下，你真的想要其他人来决定你的命 运吗？当然不要！藉由付出时间来思考这个问题，开始好好思考吧，你会想清楚的。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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