When you give someone criticism with a scowl on your face, it may be seen as a harsh judgment. But if you provide criticism with a smile and the lilt of hope in your voice, your message will be considered to be constructive criticism, and it will encourage the recipient to keep trying and improving. That may be the choice you have now in trying to get someone to work in a way that you need, Moonchild. Even though your emotions may be roiling as you try to make something work, you need to exude harmony and hope. You can do that. 当你眉头紧锁地批评别人，这也许会被视为严厉的批评。可是如果你带着微笑，用有 希望的声音说出批评，那你的讯息将会被视为有建设性的批评，而这将会鼓励被批评 者持续尝试和改进。那可能是你现在所拥有的声音，要让某个人用你所需要的方式做 事，月之子。就算当你试图让某件事正常运作，你的情绪或许会焦躁不安，不过你必 须散发出和谐与希望，你可以办到的。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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