If you were the director of a movie, you could paint a portrait of each character for the actors, and tell them what should motivate them. You might also tell them how to respond to the circumstances of their role. But in life, obviously, you can't tell people what should motivate them or how they should react to what they face, even though you would probably like to do that for someone in your life right now, Moonchild. But what you can do is figure out your own motivation, and how you should proceed given the circumstances of an "actor" you can't control. How you deal with this could actually be very motivating in an indirect way. 如果你是电影导演，你会为每一位演员描绘出属於每一个角色的模样，并且告诉他们 应该是什麽会激励他们，你或许也会告诉他们如何应对他们的角色的情况。可是在现 实生活中，你显然不能告诉人们应该是什麽会激励他们或是他们应该如何应对他们所 面对的情况，就算此时此刻，你很可能会想为你生命中的某个人这样做也一样，月之 子。不过你可以做的是想清楚属於自己的动机，还有针对现在一个你不能控制的「演 员」的情况，你应该如何处理。你如何处理这件事其实会以间接的方式让你非常有动 力。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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