Someone's harsh comment probably was not meant to be harsh. Perhaps it was meant simply to be realistic in a way that would help you, Moonchild. But because you absorb everything so deeply, it felt harsh or hurtful. But try to look at the advice or feedback you have received objectively. Think of it in an optimistic way. It might lead to an answer you have been looking for - one that has the power to transform your life for the better. Be open to what you learn. 某个人的严厉评论或许不是故意要那麽严厉的，这可能只是要用可以帮助你的方式实 际一点，月之子。但是因为你会深刻地吸收一切，所以会觉得严厉或是让人受伤。不 过你要试着客观地看待那个建议或回馈，用乐观的方式思考，这也许会引领你走向你 一直在寻找的答案——一个拥有把你的人生变得更好的力量的答案。对於你要学到的 东西，请保持开放的心胸。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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