You may feel hemmed in by someone's expectations of you, Moonchild. Because you don't like conflict and would rather retreat to your shell than deal with a difference of opinion, you may agree to go along with something you will later regret. But hiding the truth will only lead to dissatisfaction on your part and will lead to an inevitable conflict anyway. Just say what you have to say now, and see if there is some way you can work it out. With a calm approach, you should be able to do so. 你也许会因为他人对你的期望而觉得绑手绑脚的，因为你不喜欢冲突，你宁可缩回自 己的壳里，也不要处理跟他人的意见分歧。你可能会同意某件事，但你之後就会後悔。 不过隐瞒真相只会导致你的不满，还有无可避免的冲突。现在就该说出你必须说的话， 然後评估看看有什麽方法可以处理。如果有个平静的做法，你应该就能做到的。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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