Trying to reason with someone who is engaged in attention-seeking behavior - as you may be doing now - is not going to work, Cancer. When dealing with a drama king or queen, you must recognize that their goal is getting the attention they crave, even if they don't acknowledge it themselves. Therefore, the only way to deal with someone who is causing discord in this way is to ignore them. You can, however, share your attention and affection if they do begin to behave more responsibly. In the meantime, it's best to just walk away. 当某个人表现出寻求关注的行为，你要试着了解他—而你现在也许就在这样做—但这 不会有什麽好结果，巨蟹。当你要跟反应很激烈的人相处的时候，你必须体认到他的 目的是得到他所渴望的关注，就算他本人不愿意承认也一样。因此，跟这个引起纷争 的人相处的唯一方法就是别理他。然而，如果他真的开始表现地更有责任感，那你也 可以分享自己的注意力与关爱给他，与此同时，潇洒转身离开也不失为一种选择。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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