You are the one who calls to check on a friend when they are down or an ill neighbor to see if they need anything. You are the one who can sense when someone is suffering silently. Your empathy means that you can tune in to those who need you and respond with compassion and loving care. But you don't always treat yourself with equal care and attention, dear Moonchild. And that kind of self-care should not be limited to times when you are emotionally drained or not feeling well in any way. Today, simply to celebrate yourself, do something that demonstrates self-love. Even if you don't feel you really need it - do it still, and you will see the benefit of this. 你会打电话去关心心情不好的朋友或是生病的邻居，问问他们需不需要帮助，你可以 感受到某个人正在默默受苦。你的同理心意味着你可以感同身受那些需要你的人，并 且对他们回以同情心与关爱。可是你不会总是用同样的关爱与关注对待自己，亲爱的 月之子。那种自我照顾不应该在你情绪疲惫或是不太稳定的时候受限於时间。今天， 就为自己好好庆祝一番吧，做一些宣扬你是爱自己的事，就算你不觉得自己真的需要 这样做——你还是该这样做，而你将会看见这样做的好处。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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