There is a difference between wanting and coveting. When you want something, you see it more practically. When you covet something, there is a craving there that can be hard to rationalize, and therefore you may not see it as clearly. If you are feeling a compelling desire to make something happen now, Moonchild, you need to try to understand that sense of coveting and where it comes from. Is it healthy? Will obtaining it really satisfy what you feel is missing? It may be that you can achieve harmony in a better way. Once you understand this, that craving may dissipate. 想要和渴望是不一样的，当你想要某个东西，你会比较实际地看待，而当你渴望某个 东西，你会有一股热切的渴求，而这很难合理地解释，因此，你也许没办法清晰地看 待。如果你现在觉得有一股强烈的慾望，希望能让某件事发生，月之子，那你必须试 着理解这种渴望的感觉是从哪里来的，这样的感觉健康吗？得到你渴望的东西真的会 满足你所失去的感受吗？或许是你可以用更好的方式达到和谐的境界，一旦你懂了， 那股渴望就会逐渐消失。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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