An undesirable arrangement that you are living with now may have been made a long time ago. At the time, perhaps it seemed like the right thing to do, but things have changed. However, Moonchild, having lived with this for so long and having gotten used to it as part of your routine, you may not have even considered that you can make a change. You are not obligated to continue on with something that displeases you or causes you unhappiness. But before you make a move, you need to figure out what you need to do next. 你现在不喜欢的某个安排也许是很久以前就决定好的，那时候，这或许像是你该做的 事，可是现在情况不一样了。然而，月之子，你已经接受这个安排很久了，也很习惯 这是你的日常生活的一部份，但是你可能甚至不会考虑要改变。你没有责任或义务继 续做一件让你不快乐的事。不过在你做出改变之前，你必须想清楚下一步该做什麽。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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