When someone flatters you excessively, Moonchild, do you instantly assume they have ulterior motives, or do you graciously accept what they are saying as the truth? If the former is true, then perhaps it is time to start turning around the way you think of yourself, and today is the day to start. Consider this: even if someone is flattering you for selfish personal reasons, it does not necessarily mean that what they say isn't true. You are a gifted, loving, compassionate person, and you need to start seeing yourself more in that way. 当某个人过度夸赞你的时候，月之子，你会不会立刻就认定他是别有用心？或是优雅 地接受对方所说的事实？如果前者为真，那麽或许现在是时候开始改变你如何看待自 己的方式了，而今天就是该开始改变的那一天。仔细想想：就算某个人是出於自私的 缘由而称赞你，这不一定就意味着他说的不是真的。你是天资聪颖、和蔼可亲又富有 同情心的人，而你必须开始多加以这种方式看待自己。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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