You may think that setting boundaries with friends and family members creates distance between you and them. You may think it is an unfriendly way to go, Moonchild. But if you need space and a defined territory, not setting boundaries is more likely to create a rift between you and your loved ones. Boundaries help you develop a safe space where you can be your true and best self. If you need to draw a line, this is a great time to do it. 或许你会认为跟朋友和家人划清界线会让彼此产生距离感，你可能会认为这是一种不 友善的做法，月之子。但是如果你需要空间和明确的领域，不要划清界线反而更有可 能会让你跟你爱的人产生裂痕。界线会帮助你发展出安全的空间，在那里，你可以做 真实的自己，也可以做最美好的自己。如果你需要划清那条界线，现在正是这样做的 好时机。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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