If you and a friend were to stare at a loaf of bread at the same time, you would see exactly the same thing because there is little room for interpretation. But if you were to look at the person who baked that bread, Moonchild, you might come away with vastly different perceptions based on your individual experiences and personalities. You may be experiencing a conflicted perception now with someone you know. But if you each try to explain the conclusions you have reached, you can come to an understanding. Good communication will help you solve the issues you might be having. 如果你跟朋友同时盯着一条吐司，那麽你们会看到完全一模一样的东西，因为你们对 吐司的认知不会有太大的差异。可是如果你们同时看着烤出那条吐司的人，月之子， 你们也许会基於各自的人生经历和个性而产生非常不同的看法。你现在可能跟某个认 识的人的观点有冲突，但是如果你们都试着解释各自的结论，那麽你们就可以相互理 解，良好的沟通将会有助於解决你们正在经历的问题。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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