The driving experts tell us that when your car begins to skid on ice, you should keep turning in the direction of the skid rather than in the opposite direction - even though it is counterintuitive and may seem more natural to turn out of it. That's because if you turn the wrong way, your car could fishtail, creating even more of a hazard. The same principle can be applied to a conflict in a relationship. If an argument ensues this week with someone you care about, Moonchild, try to get further into the conversation rather than veering away from it. If you try to steer clear, you may inflame the situation and make it worse. Settle this once and for all. This week may also bring you a chance to finish a project you started some time ago. There may not have been the availability of assistance or resources at the time, but everything should fall into place this week. Don't put this off because this ideal state may not last long. Someone in your world may see themselves as having expertise in some area in which you really do have expertise. Rather than disagreeing, just show what you can do and let your actions speak for themselves. 擅长开车的人跟我们说当车子开始在冰上打滑，我们应该随着打滑的方向继续行使， 而不是往打滑的反方向开——虽然前者的做法跟直觉相反，而且似乎更像一般人会做 的事，不过这是因为如果你往错的方向转弯，你的车会摇摇晃晃，甚至会产生危险。 同理可证，假设你在情感关系中跟另一半有冲突，那也是一样的道理。如果本周你跟 某个在乎的人产生冲突，月之子，你要试着深入沟通，而不是转头就走。如果你试图 避开，那你可能让情况恶化，变得更糟。为了大局着想，这次就冷静一下吧。 本周或许也会让你有机会完成之前在做的事，与此同时，也许你得不到任何帮助或资 源，但是一切都会在本周明朗化的。不要拖延，因为这个理想的处理时机可能不会持 续太久。 你身边的某个人或许会认为自己在某些领域是经验丰富的专家，可是其实你也是。先 不要出言反驳，只要用你的行动证明你可以做得很好就对了。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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