If you wear sunglasses for several hours, you might be startled by how bright the day had become when you took them off. After a while, you forget that you are looking at an altered landscape. The same thing can happen when you become stuck in a certain opinion. You forget that you are looking at a situation through a filtered lens. You don't realize that your frame of reference may not be quite right. Take a fresh look at a situation you are dealing with now. If you take off your "shades," Cancer, you may see things in a different way. 如果你戴太阳眼镜戴了好几个小时再拿下来，你可能会很惊吓原来阳光是如此地灿烂 耀眼，再过一下下，你就会忘记自己看到的其实不是原本的风景了。当你坚持某个想 法的时候也是同样的道理，你忘记自己其实是透过滤镜看事情，而没有了解到自己对 这件事也许有着不正确的认知。重新检视你现在面临的情况，如果你拿掉自己的「框 架」，巨蟹，那你可能就会以不同的方式看待这整件事情。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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