If you are giving up something to help someone else, others might see it a "sacrifice." But you don't see it that way, Moonchild, because you want to help this person out, even if it means giving up something for yourself. There is no foolishness in this, unless of course, you are doing this for someone who has taken advantage of your good nature and sensitivity time and time again. If that's what someone is pointing out to you now, you need to take stock of past actions and decide if your efforts are being taken for granted. 如果你为了帮助别人而放弃某些东西，其他人可能会认为你是有所「牺牲」。但是你 不是这样想的，月之子，因为就算这意味着你要放弃自己的某些东西，你还是会想帮 助他。这样做并不愚蠢，除非他是一再地利用你的善良本性和敏感的心。如果现在有 人这样对你，那你必须评估过去的情况，然後想想看自己的付出是不是被视为理所当 然。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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