You may be someone who does not trust easily, Moonchild. Although you are quite sensitive inside, your tough outer shell doesn't always permit easy access to your heart. But if you presume there is a reason to be mistrustful from the get-go, you may never get deep enough or far enough to have a truly connected bond. When a new person enters your life, assume the best. Trust - unless and until you have a reason not to. Starting out that way is the only way to really be understood and to really understand someone else. 你可能不是会轻易相信别人的人，月之子。虽然你的内心很敏感，可是你那坚硬的外 壳并不总是允许他人轻易碰触到你的真心。但是如果你认为打从一开始就没有信任他 人的理由，那麽你可能没办法跟别人建立起深刻或长远的真实的情感连结。当一个新 的人来到你的生命里，你要假设一切都是最好的安排。信任——除非有必要或是直到 你有理由可以不再信任他为止，而这样做是被他人理解和理解他人的唯一方法。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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