You may be thinking about giving in to a compromise now, Moonchild, because there is a conflicted situation that you want to end. But you may be considering giving up more than your fair share as a way to end this situation quickly. While that might make the other person happy - they are, after all, giving up far less - this won't satisfy you for very long. You have more leverage than you realize. Be patient and come up with a plan that is more equitable. In the long run you will be glad that you did. 你现在可能在考虑要妥协，月之子，因为你想要结束那个争执的场面。但是你或许也 在考虑放弃更多原本你拥有的，这样才能快点解决。这样做可能会让其他人高兴—毕 竟他们放弃的比较少，当然高兴啊—可是你不会因此而满意太久的。你比自己认为的 还要有影响力，要有耐心，并且准备好一个更公平、公正的计画，长久来看，你会庆 幸自己这样做的。 -- 相遇要在对的时间，重逢也是。 --

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