You may have endured a lot and compromised more than you wanted in an effort to please a romantic partner, or someone else who plays a big role in your life. Now you are dealing with the reality of what you have given up, and it may not be as easy as you thought it would be. However, Moonchild, that may be because you are framing your circumstances with negative thoughts and focusing on what you gave up - rather than on what you have gained in exchange. Think of it that way, and you may see things differently. 为了努力取悦你的另一半，你可能已经承受了很多，也妥协了比你想的还要多。现在 你正在面对你放弃了多少的事实，这可能不像你想像的那麽轻松。然而，月之子，这 或许是因为你用负面想法建构出自己的处境，还有只看到自己放弃了什麽，而不是交 换之後，你得到了什麽。这样想想看吧，你会用不同的角度看见更多的。 -------------- 情人节快乐！ --

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