When you were a child, your parents may have stressed that it was important to share with your siblings and playmates. The doll or toy truck that you treasured may have then been handed off to some other child, and that may have made you feel a bit possessive. As adults, some of us still harbor guilt when we don't want to share. But the truth is that sharing isn't always the right thing to do. Someone may be encouraging you to share something now that you don't want to share, and you shouldn't have to, Cancer. Whether this is a credit you earned or a reward you worked for, don't feel guilty about not wanting to share. 当你还小的时候，你的父母亲可能就强调了跟手足和玩伴分享的重要性，你珍惜的娃 娃或玩具卡车可能被送给其他小孩了，这可能让你产生占有慾。现在长大成人了，我 们之中有一些人仍然会在不想要分享的时候心怀愧疚。然而，事实上，分享并不总是 对的。有人可能正在鼓励你分享某个你不想分享的东西，那你就不需要这样做，巨蟹。 不管这是你挣来的功劳或是努力得来的奖赏，你不想分享的时候，不用感到愧疚。 -- 相遇要在对的时间，重逢也是。 --

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