Sometimes we put ourselves into situations that don't quite fit, and they aren't really what we want them to be either. This could be a job, a relationship, or anything that becomes a substitute for what we really want. Over time, we get used to the discomfort, and we carry on as if that's how things are supposed to be, forgetting that we have other options. You may be in a situation like this now, Moonchild - except that you do know that something may not be quite right. It can be hard to know what to do. You can try to find a way to make it fit; or you can move on. The answers will come to you if you ask for them with serenity in your heart. 有时候，我们把自己设定在不适合的情境里，而这些情境也不是我们想要的，这可能 是一份工作、一段情感关系、或是任何我们真的很想要的替代品。随着时间流逝，我 们逐渐习惯了那种不舒服的感觉，然後继续生活，好像事情就该这样，然後忘记我们 还有其他选择。现在你可能就是在像这样子的情况里，月之子，除非你真的知道有些 事情可能不是那麽的正确。知道自己要做什麽并不容易，你可以试着找出方法来让自 己适应，或是选择放下过去，往前迈进。如果你静下心来，扪心自问，答案就会出现 了。 -- 相遇要在对的时间，重逢也是。 --

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