If you really want to be sympathetic to someone who needs your support, you might want to try deeply understanding why this person feels what they feel. That does not mean you have to literally experience what this person is going through, Moonchild - in fact, that might not even be possible. But you should try to delve into your imagination, and tap into your senses as you work through this person's situation in your own mind. This will better acquaint you with this person's range of emotions, and allow you to feel what they are feeling to some degree. You'll be more understanding - and a much better friend - if you do. ---- 如果你真的想要去同情某位需要你支持的人，你也许最好去试着深入了解，为什麽这 号人物会有这麽样的感受。那不代表你必须要真的体验这号人物所经历过的事，月之 子 -事实上，这甚至是不可能的。但你反倒应该要钻研你的想象力，试着在心中运用 你的感知来思考这号人物的处境。这样会让你比较好获知这号人物的情绪范围，让你 自己在某种程度上，能感觉到他们所正在感受到的。你将能够更理解他们 -也能成为 更好的友人 -如果你这麽做的话。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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