The recent bad behavior of someone close to you may have turned you off, and caused you to avoid that person for some time. But you may soon find yourself in this person's presence again, due to a required social gathering or some other obligation. You might try to avoid this, but doing so could open up other problems that you won't want to deal with. Instead, make it a point to arrive in the spirit of forgiveness, and try to give that individual the benefit of the doubt. You'll feel better for it, and you can then move beyond this matter, Moonchild. ---- 最近与某位你亲近人物的差劲行为可能让你情绪低落，而导致在某些时候你会回避这号 人物。但你很快发现到这号人物又再一次出现，是因为需要一个社交聚会或是其它的职 责。你可能试着在回避这件事情，但这样子的作法可能开啓其它你完全不想去处理的问 题。取而代之的，使它成为一个能得以宽恕对方的时机点，试着在种种质疑中来相信这 家伙。这样的话你感受会好一些，接下来才能够跨越过这件事情。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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