You could probably come up with a list of differences that exist between you and a family member, or a person who is immersed in your social circle. This may create a problem from time to time. Perhaps you two clash when you are inevitably among the same group of people, or maybe there are times when things this person says and does just gets under your skin. But instead of creating that list of differences, Cancer, try to come up with a list of similarities, common interests, and shared values. That would be a start to making your co-existence more peaceful. ---- 在你与家族的成员或是一位与你生活圈十分亲近的人之间，你可能想出了一列有争议 的事情。也许他们偶尔制造了些麻烦。或许你们在相同一个团体之中发生了冲突，不 然就是这号人物偶尔说了或是做了让你十分不爽的事情。与其列了一堆不爽快的事， 巨蟹，那倒不如列一些你们相似处，共同的兴趣，及共同价值观的事情吧。这会是个 开始，好让你们共存的关系能得以更加平和。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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