If someone offers you criticism but does not blend objective insight or wise guidance along with it, then perhaps that criticism should be suspect. Although it would be nice to believe that everyone has good intentions, Cancer, you know that isn't true. If someone has come to you with complaints and negative comments but offers you nothing positive, then their advice may not be worth very much. If you need guidance, seek out someone who only wants the best for you. ---- 如果某人对你提出严励的批判，但不是针对事情的本质，或是对事情给予明智的 建议，那或许这些批评需要质疑。尽管相信每个人有好的出发点是件好事，巨蟹 ，但你知道那件事不是正确的。如果某人接近你伴随着抱怨及负面的评论，并且 告诉你没一件好事，那麽他们的建议也许并不是那麽有价值。如果你需要指引， 那就去寻找某位希望你一切都好的人。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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