If you feel that information you have received from someone is wrong or false or misleading, be careful how you approach your mistrust. If you approach the other party in a cynical or accusatory way, you may not get to the truth because you will put the other person on the defense. And if you are right, you don't really know how the information came to be, so you must be open and willing to hear the full truth. If you start out by assuming the best, you will learn what you need to know, Cancer. ---- 如果你感觉到你从某人所接受到的讯息是错误，伪造或还是误导，那你就要小心对待你 的不信任感。如果你用着多疑或是指责的方式来接近对方，你是不可能获得真相，因为 你会迫使对方造成防御心态。即便你是对的，但你确实不知道这讯息是如何传来，因此 你必须敞开心胸且乐意去听见全部的真相。如果你开始打算要做出最好的臆测，那你将 必须该去了解你所需要该去知道的事情，巨蟹。 ---- --

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