If you express to someone that you are unhappy with a situation that is now unfolding in your life, Cancer, you may cause that person to back away and not deal with the issue. Even though you are unhappy, saying so directly will only cause the other party to feel threatened, intimidated, and incapable of fulfilling your ideals. But if you express that you have ideas for change that could make everything work for you, you will find that the other party feels inspired rather than intimidated. It's all in how you approach it and phrase it. ---- 如果你跟某人表达对当前的发展状况感到不满时，巨蟹，你可能会导致这号人物撤退并 不去处理当前的问题。尽管你不开心，但直白的陈述将只会导致对方感到威胁，恐吓， 并无法实现你的想法。不过，你若转个脑筋去表达想法，将会使所有事情运作的顺利， 你会发现对方的感受是觉得受到鼓励而不是威胁。这完全取决於你表达的方式及措辞。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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