Cancer horoscope for Dec 16 2015 You may have the urge to react to someone who has wronged you in a hostile man ner. Yes, of course this is natural, Moonchild. You regularly deal with a pers on who is unkind or critical in a very passive/aggressive way, and that's not your style. When something is bothering you, you usually either withdraw and d eal with it, or you face the person directly and state what's on your mind. It 's hard for you to understand someone who is calculatingly cruel. Still, you n eed to recognize that retaliation will only hurt you in the end. Just say what 's on your mind in a rational, factual way, and you will get your point across so much more efficiently. -- Copyright c Daily Horoscope. Download it now — http://comitic.com/dh 你有种冲动很想去处理对你不好的人* 。是的，当然，这是很自然的，月之子。你经常 用一种消极的（或积极的）方式来处理这种不友善或爱批评的人，而且那也不是你为人的 风格*。当某件事困扰你时，通常你要不是撤回然後处理它，就是直接面对此人，并对他 说你内心的想法。对你来说，实在很难理解为何有人这麽极度的斤斤计较。但是，你必须 认清一件事情：报复到最後只会使你受伤。你只要用理性的、实在的方式说出你心里的感 受，就能使对方有效率的理解你。 ---------- * 感谢 heancepaddo 协助：） * that's not your style 在这边指的是说：平时你是一个仁慈又不善批判的人，那不是 你为人的风格，而如今你却遇到了一个这麽极端的人，使你无法理解，可能心里会不由得 感觉到：「怎麽会有这样的人？！」 * someone who is calculatingly cruel 我比较不太清楚是怎麽形容他 是极度的斤斤计较呢？比斤斤计较更厉害的等级，是不是「锱铢必较」呀？ * 如有翻不通顺的地方还请告知，谢谢 ：） --

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