今天的《生命之光》提到人的「偏见」，以媛脑海中跳出《傲慢与偏见》这本翻译小说， 很写实地描写书中人物表现出来的偏见，都来自於傲慢的个性，有贡高我慢的习气，以至 於自以为是而看轻别人。以媛在工作生涯中曾经遇过许多持有偏见的人，有些是看不上私 立大学毕业的同事，觉得专业知识不够紮实；有些是不喜欢和怀孕女性同事在一个Team， 认为很快就会生产，请产假和育婴假，太麻烦；有些是不喜欢和体型过胖的人为伍，认为 对方缺乏自制力，行动迟缓也会影响脑力的敏捷程度。 总之，有各种理由让一个人自视甚高，如果他正在风头上，当然更会意气风发、眼高於顶 。就像太阳盛德导师所说，若将时间轴拉长，无法长期维持赢面，开始走下坡或甚至跌到 谷底时，过去趾高气昂却疏於做人处事的谦恭圆熟，对人事物持有偏见而致人际关系不佳 ，此时必然承受孤立无援的无奈，要想东山再起将相对困难。导师经常提到的名言：有时 想无时，莫待无时想有时。一个人处於风光的时候，各种资源都相对丰厚，若大肆挥霍金 钱、时间、精力，在专业能力、品德修养或利他善行都乏善可陈，一但落魄所嚐到的人情 冷暖将更为深刻。 的确如导师所说，每个人在不同生活及工作背景中累积了不同的生活经验及人生体验，会 从不同视角评断人事物而产生偏见，难以沟通。若能以天地真理为生活与工作判断的依归 ，就能够藉事练心，做出相对客观中肯的决定，引导後续言行得以走在中道上而容易成事 。 1/29每日感恩小记」第34轮18日 1. 朋友的千金张瀛年纪虽轻，但思虑清晰敏捷，勇於任事，乐於学习电力市场的一些 概念和商模，成为与泰国客户和以媛公司很好的沟通桥梁，非常感恩。 2. 感恩侄子提供在日本设立公司及後续会计税务等相关资讯，和可以提供专业服务的 谘询服务公司，有助於多方比较和选择。 参东流 https://www.richestlife.com/music-downloads/looking-at-the-river-flowing-to-the-east/ 一生的庸碌有什麽 What is the meaning of the hustle and bustle in life? 再回首似换得一壶酒 Looking back, life is like a bottle of alcohol 又把我推走 任凭大海终无留 Drifting in the boundless ocean 这才畅饮感受 参东流 Later realizing that life cannot be reversed like the river flowing to the East will never return 亮丽的人生是什麽 What is a glorious life? 是不是 终生做 饮陈酒 Is it a rat race with more drinking? 终究等白头 怨怼终结总还留 At the end, resentments left unsettled 难免百般感慨 参东流 Feeling of vicissitudes like the river flowing to the East will never return 我才懂得人生路由 I then realize what is life 看透什麽叫做足够 And understand what is enough 梦醒间似懂 繁华又何求 Waking up from my dream and asking myself what am I looking for in life 潇洒追梦领风骚参东流 Chasing my dreams, taking control, understanding the river flowing to the East will never return 参东流知否 猜透亦看透 The river flowing to the East will never return, I fully understand and realize 享好过终究要懂参东流 To have a good life, we must cherish it because life is like a river flowing to the East that will never return 亮丽的人生是什麽 What is a glorious life? 是不是 终生做 饮陈酒 Is it a rat race with more drinking? 终究等白头 怨怼终结总还留 At the end, resentments left unsettled 难免百般感慨 参东流 Feeling of vicissitudes like the river flowing to the East will never return 我才懂得人生路由 I then realize what is life 看透什麽叫做足够 And understand what is enough 梦醒间似懂 繁华又何求 Waking up from my dream and asking myself what am I looking for in life 潇洒追梦领风骚参东流 Chasing my dreams, taking control, understanding the river flowing to the East will never return 参东流知否 猜透亦看透 The river flowing to the East will never return, I fully understand and realize 享好过终究要懂参东流 To have a good life, we must cherish it because life is like a river flowing to the East that will never return 勾画思绪参东流 Clear my thoughts and cherish life because life is like a river flowing to the East and will never return 冬阳虽好又谁能留 The Winter Sun is so precious, but no one can hold on to it forever 在爱中共振，在感恩中连结 打造精采生命，共创美好未来。 --

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