You need to figure out why a certain person always manages to get under your skin. You may think that it happens because this person is an instigator and often brings up topics or make comments that you can't help but defend. But it may be deeper than that, Aries. It may be the case that deep down you really want this person's approval, and when something is said that doesn't resonate with you, you go on the defensive. If that's a possibility, then work on finding your confidence in yourself - not elsewhere. 你需要去搞清楚为什麽有个人总是很喜欢惹你。你可能认为这个人是那种不论发起什麽话 题或回应，都是会让你采取防卫方式的。但这可能有更深层的意思喔，羊儿。这或许是其 实你非常想要这个人的赞同，而当被说什麽与你不匹配的时候，你当然就采取防卫措施啦 。如果这个可能性不是零的话，那就别再望着别人了，从你自身中找出你自己的自信吧！ -- 还是直接贴上来比较方便 --

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