作者md9tbagel (猪油花卷)
看板Aries
标题[情报] 10/17 The Daily Horoscope
时间Thu Oct 16 19:23:42 2014
Aries horoscope for Oct, 17, 2014
Someone is talking and you are listening. Or at least you think you are listening. You are taking your time and being patient and you are hearing the words. There's another kind of language going on, though, that you may be missing. With a friend's or a relative's recent disclosure or expression of emotion, you need to look deeper. The words may not tell the whole story. Try to understand this person's body language, the look in their eyes, and the things that are not being said. If you figure it out,
you'll help this person immensely, and you will also help yourself.
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你很认真地聆听着某人对你的倾述,
至少自以为很认真。
你很有耐心的,花了很多时间,
仔细的把每个字都听清楚了。
不过其实还有另外一种语言,
可能被忽略了。
某个朋友或亲戚最近对你展露了一些私事,或者情绪上的宣泄,
你需要更深入地去了解。
运用的字眼并没有把整个情况都展现出来,
试着去了解这个人的肢体语言、
他/她的眼神、
还有其他没有说出来的细节。
如果可以把背後隐藏的情绪都搞清楚了,
不但能真正的帮助到这个人,
你也等於帮了自己一个忙。
译注:
羊羊其实直觉超强的,类似动物的本能?
所以既然都静下心来听对方述说了,
何不把感官全开,
感受一下对方说不出口的
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Life is about forgetting the answers and enjoying the questions.
-Paulo Coelho
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1F:推 yychuan: 今天好早!同意直觉超强,但是会慢慢观察,直觉变成一种 10/16 19:26
2F:→ yychuan: 预设立场或者算是心理建设(? 10/16 19:26
3F:推 JUSTER: 有感觉对方在透露一点讯息了! 10/16 19:48
4F:推 petestar: 好准 羊真的很善良 总是很认真对待他人、想帮上忙 10/16 21:25
5F:推 MiehMieh5566: 好早噢 谢谢!!!!!!! 10/16 21:34
6F:推 npcfoursell: 推直觉强 10/16 22:34
7F:→ alohahihi: 真的耶 我也会有莫名的直觉 而且还很准 10/16 22:42
8F:推 sheiswe: 推译注 10/16 23:15
9F:推 Goodwhite: 推 10/16 23:48
10F:推 hot413: 推 10/17 01:02
11F:推 hanaviki: 推一楼,最近跟同事有口角就是用了预设立场… 10/17 01:39
12F:推 gc9v: 谢谢馒头^_^! 10/17 01:47