What are you feeling guilty about, Aries? Did you give in to a bad mood and treat someone poorly? Did you lose your temper and react to a situation with hostility instead of compassion? Or is there old guilt from some long-ago event that still weighs on you? Whatever it is, you have a choice whether to entertain it or not. Everyone has memories that inspire guilt. But how long can you go on punishing yourself? You have already paid the penance. If you have learned something, then you should forgive yourself and move on. 你正对着什麽感到罪恶感呢，羊羊？ 是让自己屈服於不好的情绪， 并且对着什麽人态度不好吗？ 你是否大发雷霆并充满敌意， 而非同情心来应对某些情况呢？ 或是从某些已经过了很久的事情， 所产生的罪恶感仍然压着你呢？ 不管那是什麽， 你都有权选择是否要快乐。 每个人都有唤起内疚的回忆， 但你还要继续惩罚自己多久呢？ 你已经悔过自新了， 如果你已经学到教训， 那麽你也该原谅自己， 并且继续向前进。 ------- 羊羊，有些事情该放就放，该忘就忘， 没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的自己。 手机排版还请见谅：） --

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