It would be tempting to bark back at someone who isn't being very nice. When we experience mistreatment by someone, we may naturally go into defensive mode. The immediate reaction is to lash out. Most of us rarely stop to consider what that person might be going through that is causing them to behave in an unkind way. If you are experiencing this kind of bad behavior from someone, Aquarius, stop for a moment and think about what the reason could be. Responding with kindness will surely get a much better reaction. 对着不好的人咆哮是件很诱人的事情。 当我们受到某人的虐待时，我们很自然地就会进入防御模式。 第一时间的反应就是猛烈的抨击。 大多数的人都很少会停下来思考，他们究竟是经历了什麽， 导致他们要用如此不友善的方式行事。 如果你正遭受着某人这种不良的行为，试着停下来想想是什麽原因。 以善意的回应肯定会得到更好的反应。 -- --

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