You may now be wishing that a relationship or a situation in your life were different in some way. Even so, you have to deal with what it is now, as it is. Can you live with the way things are - perhaps forever? You may think you can create change in this situation, and that may be possible. Even water can eventually erode rock, but the process is a slow one and it takes a really, really long time. If you can afford to wait for that change in a situation or person, you may choose to do so. But learning to adapt might be easier, Aquarius. Consider it. 现在的你可能希望生活中的某种关系或某个情况可以有所改变。 即便你有如此的想法，但是现在的你仍旧需要面对它现在的样子。 你可以接受它现在的样子吗？也许它永远都是这样了？ 你可能想着你可以做些什麽来改变它。 滴水能穿石，确实时间拉长什麽事情有可能。 不过这过程会是非常地缓慢，需要很长的时间。 如果你可以承受长时间的等待，你可能会选择慢慢地等它改变。 不过你可以换个想法，学着去适应它，也许会是比较简单的方法。 好好的想一下吧。 -- 明天冬至下雨，过年要有好天气了吗 --

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