You may think you are going to need a secret decoder ring to figure out what s omeone is trying to say to you . Maybe they are giving you mixed messages . Ma ybe they are leaving part of the facts out . Maybe they are not telling the tr uth about how they feel . But whether it is , Aquarius , you can sense that something is not right and t hat clarity is elusive . But guessing is not going to help , and pretending yo u understand is not going to help either . Just be candid . Express that you a re not getting the message . Then the ball is in their court . 你可能会认为你将需要一个秘密的解锁环， 用以弄清楚某人想对你说什麽。 ( 我觉得我蛮需要的 , 听不懂人话就是在说我这种 XD ) 或许他们给了你一些混杂的讯息。 又或许他们遗漏了一部分事实。 又或许他们没有说出他们真实的感受。 但是无论是或不是 , 水瓶座 , 你都可以感觉到这些事情的不对劲， 但很清楚的是这事情很难以捉摸。 但是猜测是不会有所帮助的， 然後装懂也一样没有帮助。 坦率一点 , 直接表明自己不懂。 然後现在这轮由对方发球了。 (科普一下:Then the ball is in their court . 这个词来自网球，意思是轮到谁发球了 ) 短评: 有点久没有翻了 ^_^” 常常好像以为掌握发球局了, 先是40-0的攻势, 但对方总能慢慢打到deuce , 然後最後我还是会输掉这一盘 , 也许是策略上的错误,或者是能力上的不足 对方THE试探? 总之 ,如果同样的方法一直行不通, 那是否该想想要换个对策 ? --

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