Although you may be cringing at the idea of debating with someone you care for over something you do not agree with, it could be both stimulating and productive. Even if you seem to be on polar opposite sides of an argument right now, Aquarius, starting a conversation - even a heated conversation - could be good for both of you. It might get you thinking about possibilities that would not have occurred to you before, or it could show you sides of an argument that you had not noticed. Either way, as long as you keep it respectable and polite, there is much to gain. 尽管你可能不愿意与你在意的人针对你否定的问题进行讨论， 但如果你肯这麽做那将会是很有助益的。 现在的你们似乎处在两个极端的对立面， 但现在应该要发起沟通，即便是激烈的对话，对彼此都会是有好处的。 这会让你们思考以前从未想过的可能性， 并展现你们没有注意到的一面。 无论用什麽方式，只要保持对人的尊重与礼貌，就会有很多收获。 --

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