You may be trying too hard to make something happen, Aquarius. You are putting over-the-top effort into an endeavor and seeing only a few if any, results. But sometimes, when you try too hard, you create a sense of desperation and uncertainty within yourself, as though you believe that doing your best is somehow not doing enough. You should do what you are doing because you love what you are doing - not because you are trying to prove something or to validate your worth. Try again from a spirit of pure joy and see how things turn out. 瓶子阿，最近你可能努力过头了，以至於无法实现某些目标。 你正在竭尽全力的付出最大的努力， 然而却没有结果，即便有也就是一点点。 当你努力过头，有时你内在会绝望，产生自我怀疑的感觉， 认为自己明明已经尽力了，却怎麽就是不够。 你做事情的原因，应该是你喜爱做这件事， 而不应该是为了要证明自己的价值。 怀抱着纯粹欢喜的心再尝试一次，看看结果会如何。 -- --

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