You may have to bite your tongue. You may have to walk away. You may have to p ut a rubber band around your wrist and snap it whenever you get the urge to sa y something about a situation that has turned out to be unacceptable. You are facing a situation now where you feel the need to speak up. But if you speak u p, Aquarius, you might make things even worse. Think about it. If the one you are dealing with had true understanding of their actions, this wouldn't have h appened in the first place. So hold back and let this person figure it out. 今天会很想对一件你看不过去的事情指手划脚发表高见，但是你讲了事情会变更糟。冷静 思考一下，如果那个做错的人知道那是错事的话，一开始就不会去做了呀。所以把自己的 舌头束之高阁，袖手旁观，让那个人自己去反省。 --

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