In some situations, people fall into old patterns without even realizing it. M aybe it's a dynamic where one person naturally takes the lead, and the other g oes along, simply because that's how it's always been. But routines like that can become limiting, especially when they no longer reflect who you are or wha t you're capable of. You are not someone who thrives under restriction, dear G emini, yet someone may be slipping into a role where they expect you to follow rather than participate. Maybe out of habit, you've been going along with it -- but you don't have to. If you see a better approach, speak up. Reclaim your agency. 在某些情况下，人们会在不知不觉中陷入旧有的模式。 也许在某种关系中，一方自然而然地扮演主导角色， 另一方则顺从，仅仅因为一直以来都是如此。 但这样的惯例会限制你的发展， 尤其当它们不再反映你的真实想法或能力时。 亲爱的双子座，你并非那种喜欢被束缚的人， 但或许有人正悄悄地扮演着一个需要你服从而非参与的角色。 也许出於习惯，你一直随波逐流——但你并非必须如此。 如果你看到了更好的方法，请大胆说出来。 重新掌控你的主动权。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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