The waiting time that comes after you make a very difficult decision can be harrowing. You may wait anxiously for the outcome, and if you aren't careful, you could easily descend into fearful fantasies that include lots of reasons why your decision will not work out as hoped. Don't go there, dear Moonchild. Try to remember how good and reassured you felt when you finally made your decision. Try to recapture the actual feeling you felt at that pivotal moment. It's going to turn out great! 在你做出一個非常艱困的決定之後，那個等待的時光是很揪心的。你也許會滿心焦慮 地等待結果出爐，而如果你不留心的話，那你就會輕易落入充滿恐懼的胡思亂想之中， 老是想著你的決定不如預期地順利發展的諸多緣由。不要陷入那種情境裡，親愛的月 之子。試著回想一下當你終於做出決定時，當時的感受有多寬慰、多美好。試著重現 你在關鍵時刻的真實感受。結局一定會超棒的！ -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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